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One day, you may just walk away.

Many women spend their whole life in an unhappy relationship. They stay for security. They stay for their children. They stay because they are fearful to take that step. But, sometimes, a woman who has endured hurt, sadness and disrespect from her husband, will one day, walk away.  Fear keeps many women under the thumb of a man. Usually, this man is disrespectful, a liar, and a cheater. These types of men are usually bothered by the presence of their wife. Once a man has other women on the side, their wife can't do anything right.  My short story books take you behind the scenes in this type of life. Some women sadly stay, some bravely leave, and a few witness their husband get the karma they deserve.  Click on link below and take a peek.  https://sandramoreno.org/

When he said, "I DO."

When he said I do, he made his plans to own me. When he said I do, he began to be rude to me. When he said I do, I began to annoy him. When he said I do, he found fault in everything I did. When he said I do, he started to raise his voice to me. When he said I do, I was not attractive to him anymore. When he said I do, he no longer enjoyed my presence. When he said I do, he started to be mean to me. When he said I do, he began to disrespect me. When he said I do, he started to touch me with anger. When he said I do, he began to cheat on me. When he said I do, he became jealous of any person who made me happy. When he said I do, he started telling me what I can and can't do. When he said I do, he started to control me. When he said I do, he slapped me. When he said I do, nothing I ever said was right. When he said I do, he made me feel stupid. When he said I do, he started to get mad more often. When he said I do, he started to throw things in anger. When he said I do, he found othe...

Is there a mistress behind every husband?

 There are those men who cheat because it's simply who they are. This is something they witnessed while growing up. It begins with their own fathers, grandfathers, uncles, etc. Sadly, this act of betrayal is rarely frowned upon due to the fact that it's become so common. The cheating man's friends and some family members cheer them on. They boast and talk about all the women they've been with. So, even though these men are married, it's almost as if they're praised for all the other women in their life.  Many wives are very aware of their husbands'infidelity. They end up staying and enduring so much abuse. Somehow these men brainwash their wives to believe that it was the other woman at fault. So, instead of the wife being mad at their cheating husband, they're mad at the other woman. They want to fight her and cause all this drama. They don't realize how pathetic of a reaction that is. They end up losing their whole self respect and value of themsel...

BAR FIGHT WIFE

 She used to be pretty. She used to be fun. She used to be happy. She used to not know.  After years of hearsay that her husband was sleeping around, and had children with other women, she has changed.  She is ugly. She's unhappy. She is bitter. She is aged.  She still stands by her cheating man.  He is hotheaded. He's a cheater. He is abusive. He is worshiped. He's a hero, he's the man. He is celebrated for having so many side chicks all over town.  She feels some kind of pride when she goes out to bars. She starts fights with women her husband has been with. It makes her feel large. It makes her feel good. She boasts with social media posts of her fights. She has pushed and kicked and feels she has won. But, what has she won?  She looks in the mirror and sees a bar fight wife. 

It's about respecting your wife. . .

Many married men-worldwide, are often served by young girls wearing skimpy, sexy attire at numerous sports bars. These men have lunch or dinner there, either alone or with business partners. Feasting their eyes. Many times, these girls are young enough to be their daughters, or even their granddaughters.  Usually, while these husband's are at these types of places, their wives are home taking care of the children. Many looking a bit rough, hair in a clip, sweats & t-shirt, huffing & puffing, cleaning up spilled milk and cereal off the floor, sweeping up food crumbs, and wiping tiny faces.  Sometimes these Mom's have a daytime job, then have to come home and work at their second job, which is cleaning, cooking, and taking care of the children.  Then, there are the stay-at-home Mom's that never get a break because this is their whole life.  Sadly, because of the sexy sports bars, social media, and the conveniece to it all, many men don't think of their wives wh...

Are you controlled by the man you're with?

 Many women live their lives being controlled by the man they're with. In my short stories you will get a sneak peek into this type of life. See why they choose to live this way. Discover the many emotions that these wives go through as they sacrifice their whole life for their family, enduring abuse and infidelity. Can they stay married till death do they part? Or will they escape this exhausting life to live out the life they were destined to live?  CLICK ON LINK BELOW FOR MORE... https://www.amazon.com/Sandra-Moreno/e/B0891TTR76?ref=dbs_a_mng_rwt_scns_share%3Fref_%3Dd6k_applink_bb_dls&dplnkId=02487b3a-e7f1-48d7-8f39-e3b1c0103e44

An unhappy wife leaves a note for her husband.

 A clip from my second book: An unhappy wife leaves a note for her husband. . .  "To whom it may concern: For so many years, my husband didn't like me, but yet, he expected me to love him. At this point in my life, I cannot stand the sight of him. I must go on and experience what it's like to be loved. Yours Truly, Lety." Hooray! She left him!  Numerous women world-wide stay with men who are abusive to them. They're disrespected often. They're yelled at. They're talked down to. The husband is macho. He usually makes no sense at all. He doesn't care about anyone but himself. He's rude. He's abusive. He's a bully.  A young girl that I met recently, which is in her late twenties, had been with a man for eight years. She told me that he was always mean to her. She said he would call her from work daily. He would yell, complain, pick her apart. All over nothing. He simply had the habit of always wanting to cut her down. He would come home from w...

Don't be that person. . .

Many girls and women are jealous creatures that get completely consumed and greatly threatened by the presence of another beautiful woman. They will create lie after lie, and say awful things to just about everyone, to tear down that beautiful woman. These types of girls and women are screaming insecurity! These types of girls are quite common. Occasionally, it can be a man as well. He will do this just to be mean, to be a bully. Keep in mind, Karma is a bitch. When you intentionally tear down another human being, it will come back to you ten times over. I've seen this happen repeatedly throughout my life. I've heard of many girls that have gotten their reputation ruined because one person created a huge awful lie about them. The lie grew and grew. Before you know it, the whole school was repeating these horrible lies. All it takes is one evil person to ruin another persons life. It is so unfair for someone's reputation to be ruined based on lies, but this happens often. Bu...

So, you find out your man is talking to another woman. . .

 So, you find out your man is talking to another woman. . . there are women that will address it, argue it, make her demands, and give him an ultimatum- he either stops this or your relationship will be over. This is a healthy response. You keep your dignity, whether he chooses you or her, because you will not tolerate that he continues this relationship. You hold yourself up high. You are worthy. Even if he chooses her, you can repair yourself from that. Of course, it will be difficult and hurtful, but with faith, prayer, and a support group, you will be okay. You may end up living your happiest life yet.  Then there's the unhealthy way to handle this. . . some women become quite pathetic. Yes, they will address their husband about the other woman, but they will cry, they will beg, they will compare themselves to this woman. They become unstable and not want the man to do anything else but talk to them about this. They will stalk the other woman on social media. They will fin...

Are you married? Or are you roommates?

Are you married? Or are you roommates? This is a very important question. Many years can go by without romance, without feeling special, not feeling like his pretty girl. Do you sit close to each other when you watch television? Or do you sit several feet apart? Have you held hands lately? Do you hug each other? Is intimate kissing a part of your daily lives? Maybe you realize none of this is happening. You know this isn't right, but you let it go. You let time fly without intimacy. Days turn into weeks, weeks turn into months, months turn into years. Before you know it, you realize how many years you have let go by without taking action. It takes effort to address the marriage. It's too easy to get comfortable living as roommates. You both can do what you want, when you want, but don't forget to do things together. You must plan dates. Can you make it a point to sit beside your husband, instead of several feet away? How about you grab his hand, hold his hand, this may feel...

If she knows her husband is cheating, should she stay?

If she knows her husband is cheating, should she stay? One would say that's an easy answer. Of course she shouldn't stay. She should leave his ass. Honestly, that's not always as easy as it sounds. There are many women out there that know their husbands are cheating, but, some choose to stay and blame the other woman. She was a hoe, she was a tramp, she sleeps with many men, etc... Is this really her fault? The answer is no, it's not her fault. If the husband was a faithful man who is loyal to his wife, he would never come close to something like this happening. If he cheats, it's definitely his fault. Some women stay with these cheating men because of the financial stability. Either she is a stay at home Mom, or, her job is not enough to cover all the bills. Sometimes, she feels as though she can't get anyone better than the man she has now. These women deal with numerous affairs in their married life, but what does this do to the wife? What price will she pay ...

How can a man find his wife attractive?

How can a man find his wife attractive, if. . .  If, he's always looking at other women on his phone. This world is full of social media. So many pictures at his fingertips. These altered pictures of these women are absolutely perfect. So many angles, so little clothing, or maybe none at all. Men today have become addicted to viewing pictures of other women on a daily basis. These images are usually saved on their phones for their bathroom hobby, you know, the hobby where he gets his pleasures met. A lot of men like, love and comment on these photos. Oftentimes, conversations begin, and before you know it, these men are chatting with these women. Unfortunately, there is no way to really stop this behavior in a man. His phone is way too handy to view whatever he wants. There is no way that a wife can compete with the perfectly modified pictures of these other women. It's a losing battle. The wife is human and in the flesh. The pictures men look at are filtered to perfection. So,...

Why do so many men want to control their woman?

Why do so many men want to control their woman? As we all see in the news, and in real life docudramas, we can see the frightening facts about many women that have been killed by the man they love. This is real life. This happens all over the world. Some of these young women were murdered on their honeymoon. While others were murdered at their home. Sometimes in front of the children. Other times during the night. Imagine, a woman is going about her everyday life, then one day, she meets a man. Their eyes meet, sparks fly, they begin to date, often they get married, and go on to have children. So, at what point does the man become possessive? When does he take control of her life? A better question, why would a woman give her soul to this man? Was it during the dating period? Does this happen overnight? When does the man become in control of the woman? This woman was free to do what she wanted before, and now she is with a man who controls her every move. Women everywhere are losing th...

Are single women happier than women in relationships?

Are single women happier than women in relationships? My short story book series takes you inside the life of many wives who are with controlling, possessive, disrespectful, & cheating husbands. Sadly, many women are unhappily married. Many women are with men who are mean to them. These women are an inconvenience to their macho men. Their lives are often sad. Living this life is so common. In one way or another, these women are abused. Should women stay away from committed relationships to avoid being miserable? Are all relationships doomed? The answer is no. There are those few relationships where both parties are smitten with each other. They love and respect each other totally & completely. Honestly, this is rare. But why? Why do so many men cheat? Why do so many women become victims of domestic abuse? Women look for love all the time, but maybe women should stay focused on living single. When you're single, you're free. Free to simply be you. Free to shine bright in...
 Captivating short stories about domestic violence & infidelity. What makes my stories different, is Karma.   CLICK ON LINK BELOW.  https://www.amazon.com/Wives-Machismo-PART-2-ebook/dp/B088P532ZB/ref=tmm_kin_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&qid=1623783838&sr=8-2
 Ignorance is Bliss! Silence & Isolation is fuel for domestic violence. My short story books are sneak peeks into this type of life. What makes my stories different is Karma.  https://www.amazon.com/Wives-Machismo-PART-2-ebook/dp/B088P532ZB/ref=sr_1_2?dchild=1&keywords=the+wives+of+machismo&qid=1623783838&sr=8-2
 
Does that little voice tell you, "I should have left?" Many women struggle with this thought for years. Listen to my podcast now, as I discuss this statement in greater detail. Click on link. Don't forget to follow me on my podcast so you won't miss any mind-blowing episodes. Love & Hugs to all. 💖  https://soundcloud.com/user-114459733/i-should-have-left

THE WIVES OF MACHISMO BOOK SERIES

WILL THESE WOMEN EVER ESCAPE THEIR ABUSIVE HUSAND'S?  POSSESSIVE, CONTROLLING, ABUSIVE, AND CHEATERS, ARE EXAMPLES OF THE MEN IN MY BOOK. WILL THESE WIVES FIND THE COURAGE TO LEAVE THIS EXHAUSTING LIFESTYLE?  WHAT MAKES MY BOOKS DIFFERENT IS KARMA. MANY OF THE MEN IN MY BOOK SERIES GET EXACTLY WHAT THEY DESERVE.  5 STAR REVIEWS TAKE A PEEK INSIDE MY BOOKS AT: https://www.amazon.com/Sandra-Moreno/e/B0891TTR76?ref=sr_ntt_srch_lnk_3&qid=1601307938&sr=1-3