If she knows her husband is cheating, should she stay? One would say that's an easy answer. Of course she shouldn't stay. She should leave his ass. Honestly, that's not always as easy as it sounds. There are many women out there that know their husbands are cheating, but, some choose to stay and blame the other woman. She was a hoe, she was a tramp, she sleeps with many men, etc... Is this really her fault? The answer is no, it's not her fault. If the husband was a faithful man who is loyal to his wife, he would never come close to something like this happening. If he cheats, it's definitely his fault. Some women stay with these cheating men because of the financial stability. Either she is a stay at home Mom, or, her job is not enough to cover all the bills. Sometimes, she feels as though she can't get anyone better than the man she has now. These women deal with numerous affairs in their married life, but what does this do to the wife? What price will she pay for staying with a man like this? For starters, she will lose her self respect. She will never be confident. She will always feel that she's lacking something. She may turn to drugs and alcohol to deal with it. A few women will end up cheating themselves, to make them feel better. The emotional upset and the huge web of lies that she will experience makes her age faster. The worry, the crying, the sadness, the loss of hope that she's not enough for her husband. All of this will show across her face. When you stay with a cheating husband, the love you once had for him will eventually turn into hate. This may take many years, but it will happen. When a woman stays with a man who betrays her, a man who has lied to her, who has cheated on her, who disrespects her-she will eventually get to the point where the touch of his hand on her skin will disgust her and make her want to vomit. Keep in mind, if you have children, they see it all, they feel it all. Don't ever stay with a cheating husband because of the children. They are smart, they know what is happening, what is being allowed. This often backfires on the Mom who has stayed. Her sons will think it's okay to cheat, and her daughters will think it's normal to get cheated on. As a woman, you truly want to be a strong role model who highly respects herself. If your children see this, that is what they will aspire to be. Remember, if you leave an unfaithful man, it may be hard at first, but then everything will fall into place as it should. This will make you stronger, wiser, and you will finally be free! Free of living an exhausting lifestyle, free of living a lie, free of pretending that you are a picture perfect family. Know this: If you don't respect yourself, nobody else will either. So, the question remains; If she knows her husband is cheating, should she stay?
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