There are those men who cheat because it's simply who they are. This is something they witnessed while growing up. It begins with their own fathers, grandfathers, uncles, etc. Sadly, this act of betrayal is rarely frowned upon due to the fact that it's become so common. The cheating man's friends and some family members cheer them on. They boast and talk about all the women they've been with. So, even though these men are married, it's almost as if they're praised for all the other women in their life.
Many wives are very aware of their husbands'infidelity. They end up staying and enduring so much abuse. Somehow these men brainwash their wives to believe that it was the other woman at fault. So, instead of the wife being mad at their cheating husband, they're mad at the other woman. They want to fight her and cause all this drama. They don't realize how pathetic of a reaction that is. They end up losing their whole self respect and value of themselves. It's absolutely the married man's fault. If he truly loves his wife, he would never be with other women.
Not all wives react that way. There are some that are saddened, but in denial. When they hear or suspect of their husband's affairs, they sweep it under the rug and never address or discuss it. These wives bury the pain deep in their heart. These are usually the women that end up divorcing their husband later in life.
Then, there are those few men that would never dream of betraying their wife. They truly love their wife. They celebrate them. They respect them. They boast of them. They enjoy spending time with them.
So, I ask again, is there a mistress behind every husband?
Written by: Sandra Moreno
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