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So, you find out your man is talking to another woman. . .

 So, you find out your man is talking to another woman. . . there are women that will address it, argue it, make her demands, and give him an ultimatum- he either stops this or your relationship will be over. This is a healthy response. You keep your dignity, whether he chooses you or her, because you will not tolerate that he continues this relationship. You hold yourself up high. You are worthy. Even if he chooses her, you can repair yourself from that. Of course, it will be difficult and hurtful, but with faith, prayer, and a support group, you will be okay. You may end up living your happiest life yet. 

Then there's the unhealthy way to handle this. . . some women become quite pathetic. Yes, they will address their husband about the other woman, but they will cry, they will beg, they will compare themselves to this woman. They become unstable and not want the man to do anything else but talk to them about this. They will stalk the other woman on social media. They will find out as much as they can about her. They will copy what the other woman wears-clothes, makeup, etc.. They will become so insecure about themselves that the other woman will completely consume them. They don't respect themselves enough to make any demands, or to give the man ultimatums. They do not feel they are worthy, so they stay. Their whole life becomes about this other woman. They will hate her, they will curse her, they will talk so badly of her. They will make up any absurd lie about her to try to destroy her. Shouldn't this anger and resentment be towards the cheating man? Remember, if he respected and loved you, he would have never done this to you. 

Women, you shouldn't stay with a cheating man. This will end up aging you so fast, from the inside out, and trust me, it will show across your face. 

It's so important for women to have a life of their own, meaning, work, hobbies, volunteering, friends, & self-love. This will help you to be strong, not only for you, but in case something like this happens to you. You never want to be this poor pitiful person that makes her whole life about her man, even when he betrays you. It's okay to stand by your man but you must stand up for yourself first.

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