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Why do so many men want to control their woman?

Why do so many men want to control their woman? As we all see in the news, and in real life docudramas, we can see the frightening facts about many women that have been killed by the man they love. This is real life. This happens all over the world. Some of these young women were murdered on their honeymoon. While others were murdered at their home. Sometimes in front of the children. Other times during the night. Imagine, a woman is going about her everyday life, then one day, she meets a man. Their eyes meet, sparks fly, they begin to date, often they get married, and go on to have children. So, at what point does the man become possessive? When does he take control of her life? A better question, why would a woman give her soul to this man? Was it during the dating period? Does this happen overnight? When does the man become in control of the woman? This woman was free to do what she wanted before, and now she is with a man who controls her every move. Women everywhere are losing their freedom to the man their with. But why? Do they not know that this is abuse that will only escalate faster than they will ever realize. Many women are disrespected, abused, and cheated on by the man they love. In many cases, the man is proud and macho about the control he has over his household. In his mind, he can do whatever he wants with whomever he wants, and the wife better be okay with it. I wonder how this would work if the shoe were on the other foot? Maybe in a few cases there are abusive women out there doing the same thing, but this is rare. Would these machismo men be okay with their wife disrespecting them, abusing them, cheating on them, leaving them? Oh, of course not. What's good for the geese, is never good for the gander. Either way, why does a person not stand up for themselves? We should never, ever allow a person to take control of our life and tell us what we can and can't do. We should never sweep physical abuse under the rug as if it is not happening. Many women are belittled, humiliated, and so much more. There is help out there. The National Domestic Hotline is available 24/7 at 800-799-7233. They have helped many women and their children escape this exhausting life. It doesn't hurt to call. If you or someone you know is in this type of relationship, please get help. You do not want to be another number added to the domestic violence deaths. You can find the freedom you once knew. 

Please don't ever allow yourself to be controlled by anyone. If you have, isn't it time to dust yourself off and start living for you. It's better to be single, than to be with an abusive partner. 

Be strong, Be beautiful, Be you to the fullest. 

With Warmest Regards, 

Sandra Moreno 

My books on this type of life can be ordered on the link below. 

https://www.amazon.com/Sandra-Moreno/e/B0891TTR76/ref=ntt_dp_epwbk_0


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