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Don't be that person. . .

Many girls and women are jealous creatures that get completely consumed and greatly threatened by the presence of another beautiful woman. They will create lie after lie, and say awful things to just about everyone, to tear down that beautiful woman. These types of girls and women are screaming insecurity! These types of girls are quite common. Occasionally, it can be a man as well. He will do this just to be mean, to be a bully. Keep in mind, Karma is a bitch. When you intentionally tear down another human being, it will come back to you ten times over. I've seen this happen repeatedly throughout my life. I've heard of many girls that have gotten their reputation ruined because one person created a huge awful lie about them. The lie grew and grew. Before you know it, the whole school was repeating these horrible lies. All it takes is one evil person to ruin another persons life. It is so unfair for someone's reputation to be ruined based on lies, but this happens often. Bu...

So, you find out your man is talking to another woman. . .

 So, you find out your man is talking to another woman. . . there are women that will address it, argue it, make her demands, and give him an ultimatum- he either stops this or your relationship will be over. This is a healthy response. You keep your dignity, whether he chooses you or her, because you will not tolerate that he continues this relationship. You hold yourself up high. You are worthy. Even if he chooses her, you can repair yourself from that. Of course, it will be difficult and hurtful, but with faith, prayer, and a support group, you will be okay. You may end up living your happiest life yet.  Then there's the unhealthy way to handle this. . . some women become quite pathetic. Yes, they will address their husband about the other woman, but they will cry, they will beg, they will compare themselves to this woman. They become unstable and not want the man to do anything else but talk to them about this. They will stalk the other woman on social media. They will fin...

Are you married? Or are you roommates?

Are you married? Or are you roommates? This is a very important question. Many years can go by without romance, without feeling special, not feeling like his pretty girl. Do you sit close to each other when you watch television? Or do you sit several feet apart? Have you held hands lately? Do you hug each other? Is intimate kissing a part of your daily lives? Maybe you realize none of this is happening. You know this isn't right, but you let it go. You let time fly without intimacy. Days turn into weeks, weeks turn into months, months turn into years. Before you know it, you realize how many years you have let go by without taking action. It takes effort to address the marriage. It's too easy to get comfortable living as roommates. You both can do what you want, when you want, but don't forget to do things together. You must plan dates. Can you make it a point to sit beside your husband, instead of several feet away? How about you grab his hand, hold his hand, this may feel...

If she knows her husband is cheating, should she stay?

If she knows her husband is cheating, should she stay? One would say that's an easy answer. Of course she shouldn't stay. She should leave his ass. Honestly, that's not always as easy as it sounds. There are many women out there that know their husbands are cheating, but, some choose to stay and blame the other woman. She was a hoe, she was a tramp, she sleeps with many men, etc... Is this really her fault? The answer is no, it's not her fault. If the husband was a faithful man who is loyal to his wife, he would never come close to something like this happening. If he cheats, it's definitely his fault. Some women stay with these cheating men because of the financial stability. Either she is a stay at home Mom, or, her job is not enough to cover all the bills. Sometimes, she feels as though she can't get anyone better than the man she has now. These women deal with numerous affairs in their married life, but what does this do to the wife? What price will she pay ...

How can a man find his wife attractive?

How can a man find his wife attractive, if. . .  If, he's always looking at other women on his phone. This world is full of social media. So many pictures at his fingertips. These altered pictures of these women are absolutely perfect. So many angles, so little clothing, or maybe none at all. Men today have become addicted to viewing pictures of other women on a daily basis. These images are usually saved on their phones for their bathroom hobby, you know, the hobby where he gets his pleasures met. A lot of men like, love and comment on these photos. Oftentimes, conversations begin, and before you know it, these men are chatting with these women. Unfortunately, there is no way to really stop this behavior in a man. His phone is way too handy to view whatever he wants. There is no way that a wife can compete with the perfectly modified pictures of these other women. It's a losing battle. The wife is human and in the flesh. The pictures men look at are filtered to perfection. So,...

Why do so many men want to control their woman?

Why do so many men want to control their woman? As we all see in the news, and in real life docudramas, we can see the frightening facts about many women that have been killed by the man they love. This is real life. This happens all over the world. Some of these young women were murdered on their honeymoon. While others were murdered at their home. Sometimes in front of the children. Other times during the night. Imagine, a woman is going about her everyday life, then one day, she meets a man. Their eyes meet, sparks fly, they begin to date, often they get married, and go on to have children. So, at what point does the man become possessive? When does he take control of her life? A better question, why would a woman give her soul to this man? Was it during the dating period? Does this happen overnight? When does the man become in control of the woman? This woman was free to do what she wanted before, and now she is with a man who controls her every move. Women everywhere are losing th...

Are single women happier than women in relationships?

Are single women happier than women in relationships? My short story book series takes you inside the life of many wives who are with controlling, possessive, disrespectful, & cheating husbands. Sadly, many women are unhappily married. Many women are with men who are mean to them. These women are an inconvenience to their macho men. Their lives are often sad. Living this life is so common. In one way or another, these women are abused. Should women stay away from committed relationships to avoid being miserable? Are all relationships doomed? The answer is no. There are those few relationships where both parties are smitten with each other. They love and respect each other totally & completely. Honestly, this is rare. But why? Why do so many men cheat? Why do so many women become victims of domestic abuse? Women look for love all the time, but maybe women should stay focused on living single. When you're single, you're free. Free to simply be you. Free to shine bright in...