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Are you free to be exactly who you want to be?




My book is filled with short stories about the exhausting lives of many wives who marry controlling, possessive, abusive, and sometimes cheating husbands. These women endure being insulted, and disrespected on a regular basis. Being verbally abused hurts just as much as being physically abused. These wives wake up everyday living under the control of the man they married. When a man truly loves you, he doesn't hurt you, he wants to do everything to make you happy. The hardest and absolute best solution to avoid living this type of dreadful life is for the woman to end this relationship at the very first moment that she becomes fearful of the man she's with. These women must leave as soon as possible. The longer they stay, the harder it becomes to leave this abusive partner. Time is everything in this matter. With each passing day that a woman stays in these types of relationships, the tighter the grip the man has on the woman. After talking to many women in these types of relationships, I see that they often lack the motivation to work for a better life. Is it laziness? Is it that these women are just too comfortable to leave? Many of these women don't know their own strength. In many cases the woman says that she stays because of the kids. Those women don't realize that children are very smart and can see exactly what's going on, and it will affect their future. Kids are resilient and will adapt to most divorces just fine. I have also witnessed some women develop the fire within. They felt this incredible new strength to finally leave their abusive partner and seek the freedom they once knew. Women must think of themselves. It doesn't mean they're being selfish, it simply means that they want to live a happy life. 

Women, the man you're with should bring out the best in you. You should feel the wonderful freedom of waking up every day and being exactly who you want to be.  

Like a new flower, bloom beautifully. 

If you or someone you know is living this type of life, there is help. The National Domestic Hotline is available 24/7 at: 1-800-799-7233. It doesn't hurt to call. 

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