There are those men who cheat because it's simply who they are. This is something they witnessed while growing up. It begins with their own fathers, grandfathers, uncles, etc. Sadly, this act of betrayal is rarely frowned upon due to the fact that it's become so common. The cheating man's friends and some family members cheer them on. They boast and talk about all the women they've been with. So, even though these men are married, it's almost as if they're praised for all the other women in their life. Many wives are very aware of their husbands'infidelity. They end up staying and enduring so much abuse. Somehow these men brainwash their wives to believe that it was the other woman at fault. So, instead of the wife being mad at their cheating husband, they're mad at the other woman. They want to fight her and cause all this drama. They don't realize how pathetic of a reaction that is. They end up losing their whole self respect and value of themsel